Ill do it different next time…

As we face conflicts we have choices; our fight or flight instincts kick in and we will choose either to turn and run, or face the conflict head on. Running may look like saying, “everything is fine” when in fact the pain of the conflict gnaws in us like a festering splinter under our nail. […]

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Thorns of Our Flesh

What troubles us day to day? Is it our inability to eat right? Is it that we desire to spend more time with God, but don’t? It is that one person at work that seems to make everything unbearable? Our flesh is so weak and these sort of things are just the “thorns” that Paul […]

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Conflict What?!

Since my work focuses around conflict, I thought it was time to address what conflict is. The World English Dictionary defines conflict as:  A state of opposition between ideas, interests, etc; disagreement or controversy. The Bible according to James 4:1 says:  Conflict starts in the heart, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they […]

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The Art of Conversation

Conversation and connecting do not come easily in these times, we have lost the passion to know each other, and to allow others to express themselves fully when we do sit to converse. Quick tidbits of information are sent out via FB, twitter, and texting, giving a false impression that we are communicating. Then when […]

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In Hot Pursuit

Making choices can be a very daunting task that I have a ton of empathy for.  Recently I hired a business coach to guide me through the process of launching a business. The first thing I told her was “look out,” I am hard to pin down because I love everything, can do a lot, […]

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Fulfilling Dreams

It’s funny how people can have a particular interest and never pursue it to its full potential, I am one of those people. As a child I had dream after dream of talking to many people, mainly about God and his Son’s death on the cross, but also one on one about their conflicts and […]

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